Husband refuses to make luv with wife after 4 months in marriage

Man refuse to sleep with wife for four months  all in the name of pay back as wife asked him to marry her before they can go to bed

Married woman
Married woman

Read her story and advice her as she narrates how she dated a man for three years and refused to go to bed with him because she’s a Christian.

I dated my man for three years before we got married and denied him sexx all through the period of courtship because I am a practicing Christian, he was not cool with it

He kept on complaining and demanding for me to go to bed with  every now and then but I took my stand and then he said I will pay for it… Also read how Buea girls charm men with kayamata.

We are married now, he only slept with me on our wedding night, saying he wanted to confirm if I am a virgcin or not, it’s been four months now and hard to believe but after the first time he refused to go to bed with  me again, saying that he wants me to feel what he felt when I deprived him of s,x before our marriage.

He said that he will pay me back for the 3years. Funny enough, he’ll mastxurbate right in front of me. I have tried all I could to get him to sleeep with me.

I have tried seductxion and all sorts of methods but he is not falling for anything and I am beginning to loose my cool. I don’t want to take our issues to extended family yet, please people.

He can’t keep doing this for 3 years right? I mean if not for anything we need to have kids right? Who should I consult first? My family? His? A counselor?

What other method is allowed for me to use as his wife to get him sleep with me? This is serious please. Its been four months, I have no complains, we are cool on every other thing and he is doing every other responsibility of his except for this s*x

Please what should I do?

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